How to Feel Comfortable and Nail Your Couples Photo Shoot

Let’s be real—standing in front of a camera can feel weird. If you’re like most couples, the idea of being photographed probably makes you a little self-conscious. Maybe you hate being the center of attention, feel awkward with PDA, or just don’t know what to do with your hands. I get it.

But don’t worry! With a little prep and a relaxed mindset, your photo shoot can actually be fun. Here are some super top secret tips to help you feel more at ease, enjoy the moment, and walk away with photos you’ll love.

1. Turn It Into a Date

Why not make your couples shoot part of a full-on date day? Plan to hang out together before or after the shoot to take the pressure off and make it more memorable.

Some easy ideas:

• Post-shoot beach vibes: After your session, grab some pizza & beer or tacos and watch the sunset together.

• Wine (or mocktail) time: Celebrate looking fab by grabbing a drink at a cozy spot nearby.

• Neighborhood stroll: Go for a casual walk and daydream about your future dream home.

The point is to enjoy the time together, so the shoot feels like a natural part of your day, not a stressful event.

2. Wear What Feels Good

Your outfit plays a huge role in how confident and comfortable you’ll feel during the shoot. The secret? Wear something that’s totally you.

Wear this:

• Neutral tones like black, white, beige, gray, or soft pastels.

• Comfy, breathable fabrics like linen, cotton, or denim.

• Accessories that reflect your style (think hats, watches, or a meaningful piece of jewelry).

• Anything you feel confident rocking—whether that’s a casual romper or a full-on fancy gown.

Skip this:

• Loud colors (neon's) or patterns that clash with your partner’s outfit.

• Shiny fabrics or anything that makes you feel stiff or self-conscious.

• Clothes that you’ve never worn before—this isn’t the time to experiment!

Bottom line: If it makes you feel awesome, it’ll show in your photos.

3. Pick a Spot That Means Something

The location of your shoot matters more than you think. A meaningful spot will not only look great but also help you relax because it feels familiar or special.

Some great location ideas:

• A beach or park you both love hanging out at.

• Your home, for a cozy, authentic vibe.

• The place where you had your first date, got engaged, or just made a great memory.

• Quiet, hidden gems where you can avoid onlookers (perfect if you’re camera-shy).

Your photographer can help suggest some beautiful, low-key spots if you’re not sure where to go.

4. Bring Your Pet

Got a fur baby? Bring them along! Pets have a way of breaking the ice and helping you focus on something other than the camera. Plus, they’re family, so why not include them in your photos?

Pro tip: Bring some treats or toys to keep your pet happy and engaged, and let the photographer capture those sweet, candid moments with your little crew.

5. Communicate With Your Photographer

Don’t be shy about sharing your thoughts! If you’ve got a specific pose, location, or vibe in mind, let your photographer know. They’ll work with you to bring your vision to life—and trust me, they’ll appreciate the heads-up.

Have a surprise proposal or special moment planned? Definitely clue them in so they can capture it perfectly.

6. Just Have Fun

Easier said than done, right? But seriously, try to treat the session like a regular hangout with your partner. Laugh, hug, and enjoy the time together. You might feel awkward for the first few minutes, but once you loosen up, the camera will fade into the background.

When in doubt, just focus on your partner. Hold hands, steal a kiss, or goof around—those little moments are often the best ones.

Extra Tips for Camera-Shy Couples

• Schedule your session during golden hour for that dreamy, flattering light.

• Practice a few poses at home if it helps calm your nerves.

• Stay hydrated and bring snacks to keep your energy up.

  
  

Your couples photo shoot doesn’t have to be stiff or stressful. With a little planning and an open mind, it can be a fun experience you’ll look back on with a smile. So, relax, be yourselves, and let the magic happen.

Need more advice or location ideas? Hit me up—I’d love to help make your session unforgettable!